My big brother took my virginity

Without Speculation we would never Fly, Do Brain Surgery, Go to the Moon, Even Make the First Chair to sit on.... HELL... Even a Baby Speculates how it will get up and down the stairs for the first time...

Stay out of her way for a few days. She wasn't ticked about the cleanliness of the place. You were just an easy target for something else she was ticked off about. Find out what that was/is, help fix it, and move on.

You're stepping right into the puddle, and you seem to be doubling down on the fine tuning argument that you're not making.

Your earlier replies do not answer the question.

Agree...its not possible to represent something or someone that doesn't exist.

We know it isn't environment outside the womb. Nothing causes people to become gay. That we can see or measure in any way.

He does have a thing for it.

Your health and family are what matters most. Possessions and items can be replaced. Sometimes it can present an opportunity to create something new or to change something.

It?s so weird.

Not necessarily your perfect match, but someone that checks all the boxes for you physically.

Thank you for the response, Dynbrake. I am familiar with that view. In the research I'm (re) linking to, the author takes some time address that view and dispel it. Obviously, I would say we can't know the answer (his, yours, mine, whoever's), only put together clues.